You might have noticed that I did not mention getting a swing, a play pen, jumparoo, bouncy chair or any kind of movement-restricting baby gear. Maria Montessori advocated that children learn by moving and it is essential in developing the neural pathways of intelligence. Therefore, according to her, restricting your baby’s movement might result in limiting their ability to learn.
What are the reasons?
The idea of using any kind of baby gear is rejected not only by ‘Montessorians’ but also occupational therapists. On this website everything is explained in detail, it’s worth reading through a few posts.
I fully believe in this and adhered to it when my child was born, with the only exception being a bouncy chair. We got one as a present from a dear friend. At first, I did not want to put my baby in it at all, but once my mother in law pointed out that there were many occasions when being lifted in an angle allowed him to be part of our social circle. This came very handy for example during mealtimes. We could all attend to our dinner together without someone needing to hold him and he was happy sitting there observing us, following the conversation by turning his head to whoever was speaking. We did not use the bouncy chair for an extended period but moved his movement mat around so he could be with us wherever we went in the house.
Should we not use them AT ALL?
I would also mention that I have many friends who use a lot of baby gear and are very happy with them. Some of them think that a playpen is essential so that they can have a minute for themselves, which I wholeheartedly support! You are the most important element of your baby’s life, if you need a moment, make sure to have it!
Final thoughts
I have explained to you what Montessori believes in and what occupational therapists say. At the end of the day it is your decision and do not feel guilty whatever you choose to do.
What is your take on the subject? Do you have any questions regarding the practicality of not using baby gear Please comment below!
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